DelusionCalc
Male & Female Delusion Calculator
Free dating standards test — female & male delusion calculator with real demographic math. Pool size + 1–10 delusion score
How the delusion calculator works
Three steps — same engine for a standards test, delusional quiz, or ideal-partner headcount
Enter your dating filters
Age, height, income, education, ethnicity, lifestyle prefs.
We estimate the real pool
Public survey-style demographics multiply — height floors and income floors cut hardest.
Get score + breakdown
Dating-pool share, delusion score on a 1–10 scale, and which filter costs the most.
Explore by region
See how datasets differ across countries
Understand the data
Popular guides
From the blog
Height percentiles, delusion score explainers, and dating-pool deep dives.
What Your Selectivity Score Really Means (1–10)
A plain-language breakdown of every score band and what it implies for pool size.
The Odds of Dating a 6-Foot Man
Only about 14.5% of US men clear 6'0". Stack income and age and the share shrinks fast.
Your Dating Pool Is Smaller Than You Think
Why a few reasonable dating preferences multiply into a tiny percentage of people, and how to see which filter shrinks your pool most.
How Rare Is a Woman Earning $100k?
Income thresholds hit different genders differently. Here’s the shape of the distribution.
Age Gap Dating: What the Data Shows
Age gap dating statistics: how age windows and gap rules compress the number of available partners, and what the data shows by age.
Dating App Statistics That Explain Everything
Match rates feel brutal because exposure is not the same as eligibility.
All calculators
Delusion Calculator
Male & female delusion / selectivity score
Male Delusion Calculator
Defaults for men evaluating women
Rarity Calculator
How rare am I as a prospect
Height Percentile Calculator
How rare is my height
Delulu Calculator
Same math, punchier framing
I Got Standards Bro
Standards vs pool size
Ideal Partner Builder
Headcount only — no score
Dating Pool Calculator
Eligible singles + sex ratio
Body Count Estimator
Joke formula (18+)
How Delusional Are You?
Viral framing of the main calculator
How Rare Are You?
Rarity calculator alias
Am I Too Picky?
Picky vs pool-size framing
How Picky Am I?
Measure selectiveness
Realistic Dating Standards
Realistic vs aspirational filters
Ready for a dating standards reality check?
Male or female framing — under two minutes. No signup. No judgment, just math.
Start the Delusion Calculator